Paradox of empathy

baala
3 min readNov 2, 2023

Let’s delve deeper into the dynamics of the ongoing conflict between Hamas and the state of Israel and the intricate nature of empathy in this context.

The conflict between Hamas and Israel is marked by a deeply rooted historical and political context, making it a complex and highly emotional issue. On one side, Hamas is perceived by many as a representative of the Palestinian people, fighting for their rights and independence. On the other side, the Israeli state is seen as the guardian of Israeli citizens, responsible for their safety and security.

In this scenario, when Hamas launches attacks on vulnerable Israeli civilians, especially those who are injured and defenseless, these actions are widely condemned by much of the world. The perception of Hamas as an enemy and their actions as immoral stems from the belief that civilians, particularly those who are wounded, should not be targeted in warfare. These civilians are seen as vulnerable individuals who are suffering without the means to retaliate. There is a collective expectation for heroes to intervene and hold those responsible accountable. Initially, the Israeli state may be seen as a hero, tasked with protecting its citizens from harm.

However, the situation becomes more complex when the methods employed by the Israeli state to retaliate against Hamas lead to casualties among innocent Palestinians, including women and children. This is where global perspectives start to diverge, influenced by one’s historical and political loyalties. People’s opinions may be swayed by their affiliations, the narrative they have grown up with, and the historical context they consider.

Regardless of the reasons behind the conflict, it is innocent civilians on both sides who bear the greatest burden. They find themselves caught in a situation not of their making, suffering the consequences of actions taken by others. The tragedy lies in the fact that these civilians, who have no control over the political decisions or military strategies of their governments, are the ones who experience the most hardship and loss.

What’s particularly intriguing in this context is the phenomenon of empathy. Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of another, is a virtue often praised in many cultures. However, in the context of this conflict, showing empathy towards a perceived enemy can be viewed as an act of betrayal by third parties.

To further illustrate this, consider the designations “H” for Hamas and “I” for the Israeli state. The members of these groups can be represented as “h” and “i” respectively. If, for instance, a wounded “h” from Hamas expresses sympathy for a wounded “i” in Israel, it may surprisingly be viewed as betrayal by other members of Hamas. This is a reflection of the deeply ingrained loyalties and the “us versus them” mentality that characterizes conflicts like this.

Now, think about a different scenario in which an individual does not have a direct affiliation with either side but resides in one of the affected countries and holds strong loyalties there. If this person expresses sympathy toward their counterpart on the opposing side, it can be perceived as an act of betrayal. It may appear as if they are shifting their loyalties from one side to another, which can be a divisive and sensitive issue within communities affected by the conflict.

In the context of the deeply polarized and emotionally charged situation, such as the Hamas-Israel conflict, expressing empathy towards the perceived enemy can often be viewed as an act of betrayal rather than an act of kindness. This is due to the divisive nature of the conflict and the deep-seated loyalties that characterize it.

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